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heyy its me again =/ haha the girl with the ex bf problems. i hope you remember me.
so yeah one of my friends that's friends with him and me is having a little get-together thing at her house in a few days and she invited him. this is my first like long-term relationship ex-boyfriend so i don't really know how to play it. i want him to know that i still love him and want him back without acting clingy and stuff it's gonna be all our friends hanging out so i just want to have a good time and hope something happens between us. so my questions are what should i do to let him know i still love him and want to be with him without being all clingy and stuff and should i hug him when i get there? i know i'm gonna be the same girl i was last summer when he fell in love with me but any special tips? as you can probably tell by now i really love this guy and would do anything to get him back. thank you so much.
A hug would definitely be okay as long as the timing and location are right. If you have to walk in between a bunch of people to get to the couch he's sitting on just to give him a hug, I probably wouldn't go for it when you first get there. Instead, just try to catch him in private and some point and say, "I'm glad you're here. It's nice to see you." Then give him a hug, if he seems comfortable.
If he's just standing up or in a good location when you arrive, definitely give him a hug. Say about the same thing, ya know, "It's nice to see you" and give him a hug at the same time.
Since it is just a casual get together, you shouldn't go as far as letting him know that you still love him. If he gets that feeling, he gets that feeling and that's great too, but you don't want to push things or make anyone uncomfortable.
Letting him know that you're happy that he's there and happy to see him will be enough to get him to keep his eyes on you. If you get an opportunity, talk to him in private. Say, if he goes to the kitchen to get a drink, try going with him. (without being too obvious) You know, if he says, "I'm thirsty" and starts to go to the kitchen, say, "Yeah, me too" and go along with him.
Then you'll get to talk to him in private. Ask him how he's been, let him know that he looks nice, and if possible, even slip in something like, "I've missed you, it's great to see you."
He'll catch on quickly (hopefully) and talk to you back so the conversation will be kept alive.
Good luck(:
Darby
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thanks thats a good idea
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