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I really really like this guy and ive never liked someone as much as i like him. Hes really sweet to me but much more experienced. He tells me all the time thats its cool that im a virgin that i should keep it and that hes not going to try to have sex with me. When we are kissing and he thinks it might go to far he just stops for awhile to cool off. He even checks to make sure im ok when doing just the little things. But im very confused one of my best guy friends hates him and tells me all the time that hes just going to use me for sex and then leave. The other night i was talking to one of my friends and one of his best friends and then he tells me that he thinks hes going to use me for sex because hes been having sex with girls and then just moving on. I asked him if he said anything if he had flat out said he was going to use me for sex but his friend said he has said nothing at all. So what do i do? is he using me for sex? I really really like him and i really trust him but its very hard when people are constantly telling me bad things about him. When we are together hes so sweet and honest he never pressures so how do i believe these awful things people are saying? do i talk to him? if so what should i say?

Most guys who "use girls for sex" tend to be sweet and nice.

That's not your issue. Your a virgin. You should save something SO special like that for someone who deserves it. Someone who has proven to you they love you and proving something like that takes a long time. I can tell by reading your post, your not ready for sex and having sex with that guy would be a wrong choice.

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(Rating: 5) you right im not ready. I'm not really planning on having sex with him I'm not ready at all so i don't think he could even talk me into it. thanks so much though
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