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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me xadvice
My parents told me the first day of january that they were getting a divorce. On the 24 of janurary my aunt died who was the most important person to me in the world. Six weeks later a very close family friend died. Four weeks later I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. It seems like my life is just going to hell. I am constantly deppresed and see a grief councilor but it dosn't help.
Im really sorry to hear about everything thats happened recently.
Your parents divorcing may be the best thing for them both. They may have been unhappy together for a long time so them getting divorced will mean that they can both live happier lives but apart. Talk to them and tell them how you are feeling about it all. Im sure they will be understanding.
Life can seem like its falling apart for you but I honestly belive that everything happens for a reason so there must be something good coming your way soon, you definately deserve it.
Id go to your GP and just tell them about it all, he may give you anti-depressents and even though this might sound scary and you dont want to take them it could help you in the long run, you will start thinking more positively. Also tell him/her that you see a greif councillor but it isnt helping. Maybe seeing the councillor isnt helping because your not ready to come to terms with the loss of your auntie, maybe you dont want to accept that she's gone. Id definately try talking to a doctor and see what he/she can do for you.
When life gives you 10 reasons to give up, show that theres 100 reasons to carry on.
I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need to talk then just send me a message and I will try to help the best I can
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(Rating: 4) Thank you for the advice but sinc I posted that things have begun to get more shitty. I'm seriously contemplating suicide of some sort cause my post was only a precentage of how my life has sucked ever since i was a little kid