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I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.

I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.

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josh decided he would choose between me and kelsey but he would need a couple days because he liked us both. i finally talked to him and he said he was sticking with kelsey...so once again he led me on and broke my heart! its so hard to find the right boy, should i just give up on him? (link)
Yes.

It sounds like he has led you on before. And this time, he has outright said that he wants to stay with the other girl.

While this can be very tough, at the end of the day don't you want a guy who wants YOU? It's not good for your self-esteem to hang around and wait for a guy who has chosen another girl.

In a relationship, you want to feel special and wanted. It doesn't sound like this guy can offer that to you.

If you choose to move on, you are opening yourself up to meeting a guy who really, really likes you!

Best of luck.


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so should i just not talk to him anymore, because when i try not to like him, then i talk to him, i just end up liking him again..so what should i do now?




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