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15/ Female

There's a guy, his name is Kyle. I use to have a major crush on him- now I just think he's cute. We've known each other for 2 years now, he knows I like him- last December he had said to me "I just want to be friends." so we've had it kinda awkard since. At prom (last month) I asked him as friends- he ended up asking my friend Lidia the day before prom (she said yes with her not knowing I asked till I saw her). When I got there it turned catotic- at the last dance my friends (Lidia, Sara & Hayley) managed to convince him to ask me to dance- I said yes(he wouldn't stop starring at the floor). But ever since then he hardly talks to me... Just last week when I was talking to him, he let my enemy just yank him away! I know he can't stay focused, but still! He even told me in April he has a crush on Lidia- Lidia hate's to think about that fact (Kyles a player anyway). What on earth should I do?!
-Lily

There's two things you can do,


He's not interested in you. He's had oportunities to dance with you , chat or even ask YOU to the dance, and he hasnt shown you interest.

1) If you value the friendship, let him know that you feel uncomfortable and reassure him you dont have feelings for him anymore.

2) Steer clear of him in the sense that dont duck and cover (haha). But dont bother with stupid small tak and conversations because it's only going to be uncomfortable. Dont make the effort with him if he cant be bothered with you.

Simple..

Sage :)

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(Rating: 5) I would prefer 1 but he has a disabilty when it comes to focusing on things. Thanks what happens, happens- i guess.
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