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14/f
So I've been liking this guy for about 3 years now and finally got the chance to tell him that I like him about a month ago. He could tell what I was going to say and actually looked happy that I told him. Ever since then he has been acting Crazy nice and flirting a whole lot more. Like randomly running up to me and giving me hugs and CONSTANTLY staring at me. All the time.
Now everyone knows that I like him and won't let me forget it. And I am positive that he likes me back.
The most annoying part is that it's been over a month since I told him an he hasn't given me an answer. (I basicly told him, and he walked away smiling)
Right now I'm at the point where I'm thinking "just drop it, oh well, the last three years of your life are pretty much wasted"
But I understand that he is super shy and he probably has no idea what to think. Although, he flirts with other girls to make me jealous...
So this weekend some of my friends are having a picnic and he's coming. I HAVE to know something. It doesn't matter what it is, even if he doesn't like me back, I need to know something.
What do I do!? Please help me on this. I don't feel like I should go up to him and ask him again... Akward. And flirting my ass off doesn't seem like enough at this point.
(I need to add that I might not see much of him this upcoming school year so I need to do this noww)

Basicly, my mind is beyond confused.
What should I do?
(sorry it was so long)

You said you're pretty sure he was happy when you told him. So you've got a vibe he likes you too. He's probarbly really flattered, and you've boosted his ego which is why he tries to make
you jealous. It's a been a month now, and so I guess it's about time you find out. Waiting
around for someone is hard.

At the picnic, try to get him on his own and ask him if he has thought about what you said -and what does he think about it. Just go for a walk with him, and ask him. Because if
you dont, the chances of him asking you are next to zero (because its been a month) -
then you guys will get tired of waiting around for eachother and then the feelings stop -
I've seen it happen. So just ask, don't come off too strong, that can "scare" a guy off - ask him what he's thinking, what he wants.

the outcome will probabrly result to you dating :) which
is what you want. If you want something, you have to go out and get it.

Good Luck,

Sage :)


Ps - Enjoy the picnic, show him you know how to have a good time and have fun :)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! If I have anything else I need, I'll definately email you or something :D
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