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Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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I'm 13(m) and most of my friends have a girlfriend and I don't, so they usually ditch me because I don't have a girlfriend. Also without a girl I feel lonesome. So how can I get a girlfriend?

Most of your friends only have girlfriends for the simple fact because they want to be seen as "cool"

I bet you half of them dont even really like them, it wont last. Promise. Bit harsh, I know.

They are obviously not true friends if they feel the need to ditch you.
If you want a girlfriend, get one for a good reason, not because your mates have one,
and you dont want to feel left out. You've got to like her.

If you want to start becoming friendly with girls and getting to know them more,
ask your friends to hook you up, on double date or something (maybe if one
the girlfriends have a friend, you comment on her..to your friend etc etc). Join different
activites at school, and just get to know the girls in your different classes -
that can easily be solved by striking up casual conversations.

Before you "Like" them, you have to be their friend first. You cant force feelings.
Branch out and make more friends, girls and boys(because your boy-mates
dont seem to be treating you very well)

Remember, summer's coming round the corner,
you NEVER know what is going to happen in the summer.
Think about all the things you can be doing in the summer, where tonnes
of girls will be - like at the beach or swimming pool


PS- you may feel lonsome because your idea of a girlfriend seems, comforting and
you dont have that sort of comfort. Being lonsome may not because you dont have
a GF but because you're friends arent including you.

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