my boyfriend admitted tonight that hes upset because he cant make me orgasm. it hurts me to be fingered, and we never have sex long enough to climax (he still lives at home and his parents sometimes interrupt).
i give him handjobs all the time, and it pleasures him, but he still doesnt know how to fully pleasure me. i keep reassuring him that i dont need him to pleasure me, but he really gets upset. maybe he feels like hes not doing his job or something? i dont know, im not in his head.
his friend mentioned that he should go down on me, and then i go down on him. he said it'll "drive me wild". i'm waaaaay iffy on oral sex. it took me forever just to get used to the idea of giving my boyfriend a handjob! and hes never seen my body before. im very modest and i guess a little old fashioned? i dont know how to prepare for that. i dont even know if i really want him down there...but i cant decide if i should give it a try or not.
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I think it's great as long as you're comfortable doing it. There are girls that only orgasm from oral. Maybe you're just one of them? I understand that you're modest about it though. If you're not comfortable, don't do it. But if you are comfortable with your boyfriend, you can at least try it. If he starts to do it and you're really not feeling comfortable with it, just tell him to stop. Make sure he knows that you're not fully comfortable with it if he doesn't know already. It sounds like you guys have good communication since he was willing to admit that it upsets him that he can't make you orgasm. Just let him know how you feel about it and tell him that if you're not feeling good about it, you'll just tell him to stop and you'll try something else.
Darby(:
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