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i'm bringing my ex with me on vacation in july. we broke up in april, but we both decided that we were still gonna stay good friends and see where things go from there. i'm still in love with him. he broke it with me because he said his feelings changed, but he said he still wanted me in his life, and i know he means it too. we're going to myrtle beach together and do you think theres a chance of him falling back in love if we're like on the beach at night flirting and hanging out? what do you think of this situation? and what things can i do to make it as romantic as possible. i would do absolutely anything to get back with this guy.
17/f, 17/m
thanks so much for your time.
oh and we were together for about 9 months, if that helps. and we met in the summer and starting dating in the summer.
This is a difficult situation because there is no way to make someone have romantic feelings about you. It's good that you're still friends, but you should only be friends if you can handle it. Of course there is a chance that getting away from your hometown together will re-spark something between the two of you. I wouldn't count on it though.
It would be great if there were some magical formula that you could cook up and make his feelings change. Unfortunately, you just have to roll with it. The chances of something romantic sparking depends on how you are with each other now. If you guys still flirt, hang out often, or act like you're dating; there's a good chance something might happen. However, if he's hanging out/interested in other girls, doesn't flirt, and all around doesn't act nearly the same as when you were dating, the vacation will probably be just like that of any two friends.
If I were you, I would just go on the trip and enjoy yourself as much as possible. Sure, hanging out at the beach at night might up your chances a slight bit, but other than that there really isn't much you can do. Just be yourself and try to remember what attracted him to you in the first place. If you were sweet when you started dating and he liked that, let your sweet side come out. If you were spunky, show your spunk. Things and people change, so don't expect anything huge. Just roll with things and hope for the best.
Darby(:
EDIT:
In response to your comments and questions, it sounds to me like he's waiting for you. Maybe the stress of the end of the school year just took a toll on your relationship. He hasn't moved on and he says that things will be better during the summer. That means that he wants to pick things back up during the summer. It sounds like your vacation might be something to restart a relationship together. I'd say your chances are pretty good. (:
Have fun!
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thanks so much...but yeah he's not even going to his own prom because i heard he didn't feel right taking anyone else, but he went to my prom with me and we were slow dancing and stuff. so he's not interested in other girls, thats why i'm still hanging on. and he also said that things would "be better" for us in the summer when the stress of junior year is over and everything..like i'm planning on just acting like the sweet girl i was when we first started dating. what do you think?
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