19/f. So I have this amazing fiance whom I love very much, and the possibility of being pregnant with his kid. We've been together for almost two years, and planning a wedding.
Well like a week ago, we brokeup because we got into a huge argument. He broke my heart badly and felt that I should move on. Well I put up an ad on Craigslist about me wanting a relationship. I ended up getting 5 valid responses from guys saying how cute I am and such. Well I got to know them all a little bit. Then suddenly my ex-fiance came around to apoligize and he treated me to the movies, and begged for me back. So I accepted happily.
Now the problem is, I have these 5 guys wanting to go out with me. I don't know how to tell them I am going back out with my fiance. Like they LIKE me. I still want to stay good friends with them, yet I already know it'll break their heart.
So as a note, don't tell me I shouldn't of went to Craigslist in the first place. I think I already know what I've done. I am asking is, how can I break the news to them?
And I am faithful!! I never cheated and never will.
Thanks
It's best to just be up front with them. Since you haven't even went on one date with any of them, just tell them what's up. They can't be that angry about it. Just tell them that you have a great relationship with him and possibly a kid coming. Let them know that you'd still like to be friends with them though.
There's no tiptoeing around this one. You have to just be straightforward and honest with them. Let them know that you guys did get into a bad fight, but you talked things out and worked through it. If they're worth having as friends, they won't be too angry. They'll probably just be a little disappointed at first, then they'll move forward with things and hopefully still be your friend.
Darby(:
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