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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

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ihave been going out with my bf.for a while and hes been active before me many times. any way my question is when i want to give him a hand job he wont let me touch his penis like i rub it outside of his boxers ive tried going in and he like pulls my hand away it pisses me off he doesnt know that thou. like i tried asking and hes like i dont like the mes? and when im going to give him head he has to put a condom on i havnt done it in a while b.c he promiced id get to try witout it on so we havnt done it i asked if i could like taste his cum and hes like no its gross im like bitch fingering me is gross. ive never tasted it and i want to im sick of condoms man and his underwear makes things less exciting like and when we were going to have sex where he didnt have a condom hes like no im not going to cum in you dude way to make me horny and stop. and we tried two seconds wit out one (GREAT) and he wont do it again P.S. im on birth control... weve talked about it and shit and he still puts one on wat do i do to make him change his ways pleaseee.


to add im sorry that we have been dating over a year now and i already asked why to this and he just tells me messy or w.e and i asked if he had an std.

He is probably just really embarrassed even though he shouldn't be because you two have been together for over a year. But anyhow, people are different. It can be quite frustrating indeed. With the whole condom issue, maybe you both should go for an STD test together, just to be extra sure. Maybe he is afraid of STD's, you never know unless you ask, and if he pushes you away, tell him you want to know and you deserve to know because its been over a year! It should be long enough. When he says his cum tastes 'gross' tell him YOU should be the judge of that, unless he has tasted it before and can share the experience! :) Talk to him, tell him the underwear in between you and him just kind of puts you off and you find it more of a turn-off than anything. That should get his mind working and most probably help you enjoy it. Remind him that you are on birth control so that means you will not have a child unless you come off the birth control. You said it was great when you had sex without a condom, did he feel the same way? If he did, remind him about that and stress how good it felt and how much you liked it without a condom. If he says 'messy' again, say, 'Maybe I like messy!?' It is sort of a tease in a way too, if you guys are into such.

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