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Okay so there is two questions here
first one is Me and this guy has been having sex since like october but then we took a brake and we started having sex again but then he was like fuck...and i was like and he was like you make me cum to fast. SO like is that a good thing my friends say it is but is it?
2nd one is
When me and him have sex i don't get off is that like a normal thing like when women have sex all the time with a man and don't get off is there somthing wrong or yeah
his the first person i have splet with (link)
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Not sure how old you are, but lots of younger guys have difficulty with something called 'premature ejaculation.' This basically means they cum too fast.
It's nice that he is turned on by you and enjoys the sex, but in reality things could be a lot better if he was able to make it last longer. He shouldn't be blaming you for his problem!!
When a guy cums too quickly, a big side effect is just what you mention - the girl doesn't often have an orgasm. While it can be common for women to have difficulty orgasming though intercourse alone, that doesn't make it okay.
There are plenty of other ways he can help you get off, and if he isn't doing them then I would question the balance in your sex life. You deserve to have an orgasm just as much as the guy does!
I wish you the best.
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Thanks, Well when me and him bery first had sex a few months ago it use to be like an two hour thing. and know its just a yeah whatever
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