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so, i like this boy at my church. he told me through a note and a phone call that he likes me to. now, the problem is everytime i go to youth group his best friend, his girlfriend and my crush are there hanging out becuase they all attend the same school. lately she, being my crush's best friends girlfriend, has been all over my crush and like completely ignoring her boyfriend. like, she would giggle and touch his arm alot, she would laugh at his dumb jokes. im falling for him because he's an all aroudna amzing guy, like he calls me beautiful and gorgeous, he just has such a way with words that i always get butterflies, but this pest is ruining EVERYTHING! idk what to do. did my crush lie to me about having feelings for me? is his best friends girlfriend playing my crush's friend? is this girl using her "boyfriend" to get to my crush? please help i am done crying over this.

There could be a few reasons for her behavior-
1st-She could just be a bitch trying to get you jealous.
2nd-Girls always start liking a guy when they see another girl like him. You could be best friends with a guy for ten years and then all of a sudden he gets a girlfriend and you're jealous. That happens all the time.

It sounds like the guy you like is in an uncomfortable spot, he can't be rude to her, but she is disrespecting his friend.

If I were you, I would let her keep acting like the idiot she is making herself out to be. Be nice and polite, don't cause any waves, and let those two guys figure out they would rather not have her around. If you cause a confrontation you will be giving her exactly what she wants-your jealousy. If you ignore her it is like saying, "you aren't even worth the worry."

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