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Hey, I'm Brianna. I'm 18 years old. I like giving advice. I won't give you any of that petty advice like "look at the bright side." I mean really, that's wack. I hate when people tell me that. I'm here to try and help you with any of your problems. I'll give you honest advice that hopefully will get you on the path that leads to the right decision. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. I'm going to give you straight advice. It might not be what you want to hear, but that's advice. Take it or leave it, it's totally up to you. I sign on everyday, usually a few times. So come on, drop questions into my inbox! I try my best to always get back to you within a few hours. Don't be shy, everyone needs a point in the right direction every once in awhile. :D
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so there are these boys, both are andy. i liked one of them for about a year and he finally fessed up for feeling the same through a note. i really like him alot but the other andy is an awesome guy and we have so much in commen. i spent the weekend with the second andy, that i haven't liked for a long time, and i saw the real him like the boy outside of church and im starting to like him alot! i went over to his camper over the weekend and heard him say he likes me to and we were playing games outside together just hanging out and being ourselves, it was amazing. now, the second andy, the one i didnt like for a long time, that i spent the weekend with did everything in 2 days that the first andy did in a year. both are AMAZING guys and i have feelings for both i just dont know which one to go for. im really sorry this was confusing becuase they both have the same name, but i have no other idea on how to explain it that you'd understand please help me though i need it!
It seems to me that the second Andy is a better guy. I know that you said both Andy's are amazing but you said that the second Andy did everything in two days that the first Andy did in one year. It seems like he would be the better pick. You said that you have so much in common with the second Andy. I would try and persue a relationship with that Andy. It seems like you two would do so much together and have a very strong relationship.
The first Andy finally fessed up for feeling the same through a note. After a year. To me, thats too long of a wait. I hate waiting for a guy. It gets me all depressed/sad. (haha) Waiting for a guy is like waiting for rain in a drought. Useless and disappointing.
The second Andy hung out with you for a whole weekend, you overheard that he likes you, you guys played games and everything for 2 days and you had a great time. He seems like the guy that you should try and persure a relationship with.
The thing you don't want to do is to lead these guys one, because then instead of having one of them, you might not get the chance to have any of them.
Now you just need to consider which one:
*-makes you happier
*-you can see talking to on the phone all night
*-you can be yourself around
*-makes you laugh
*-you can see yourself with
*-you can see yourself kissing
*-you are more attracted to
*-you miss more when you're not together
*-you can have full on conversations with
*-you think about more
*-etc;etc
They both may be amazing, but maybe one is amazing in a best friend kind of way and another one is amazing in a boyfriend kind of way. In the end it's totally up to you and I can't make the decision for you.
If you need anymore advice on this subject or any other, you can inbox me.
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
(Rating: 5) now that i considered your topics, i believe the second andy suffices me well. everytime we talked he looked into my eyes and i got butterflies, his smell and just his voice is intoxicating. thank you so much!