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My name is Darby. I'm seventeen years old. Feel free to e-mail or message me with any question. My e-mail is yo.darbyjay@live.com I will answer anything to the best of my ability. I decided to join this site because I love giving advice and have been told that I'm good at it. I get on every day. Usually a few times. You can also add me on AIM: OiScumPunk@aim.com.
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so my best friend and brother just started dating. i hate that so much! i cant be a bad friend to her though and say how i really feel about them. i just dont want to lose her because everytime we are together she is texting him and they are in the same house and she wants to go to his room to be with him when we are supposed to be having "best friend time" however everytime they are together she never texts me or even splits her time between us. she promised me he would never ever take her away from me but i feel like he already is..what should i do?
Telling her how you feel won't make you a 'bad' friend. If she's your best friend, you're supposed to be able to talk to her about anything that's bothering you. Let her know that it hurts your feelings when she's at your house to see you, then she goes to his room to hang with him. And that it bothers you when she texts him the whole time you're together. She needs to know how you feel so that she can try to do something about it before it gets out of hand.
I don't blame you at all for hating your brother and best friend dating. I absolutely would despise that. I couldn't be friends with someone if they decided to date my brothers. I would feel like that was crossing a boundary. You're a good friend for not being angry with her for dating your brother, but stand up for yourself and (calmly) let her know how you feel.
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i just feel so bad saying "i hate you tih my brother because i think our friendship is more important" but its driving me away from her and my brother, believe me, i despise it too, but shes my best friend, i want her happy.. even if im not :/ thanks so much for your advice, darby!
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