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Hi!
13/f

Well, I just recently talked to my first boy friend from like 2nd grade and we technically didn't call each other that but ...we were. Well, his name is Andrew and he's a nice guy. Well, I really have a big crush on him now...even though we just started talking on Sunday. Well, today I asked him if he had a girl friend he said " No". I was nervous to ask him ..but he made me . Well, I told him that I didn't have one and he said " Cool". Well I told him I liked him and he said " Oh, we don't even know each other much". I told him that I knew that and I think we should be friends for now until we get to know each other and than we can go out or something and he said that sounded good. So, I was wondering if we would eventually go out. We have A LOT in common. It surprised me how much. Well, I asked him if he remembers much from when we were young and he said " yaaa , kinda". Well if he did he should of remembered that we almost kissed...but lol his mom ruined the moment...she opend the door soon as his face was up to mine. We had so much fun together...so do you think he'll eventually remember all that stuff? Do you think we could go out ? What should I do to keep patient?

Thanks!!

Oh, and I'll rate fair!

Usually, as a girl, we can recall quite a lot but highly doubt he'd remember - boys can be silly that way...but ask him what he remembers because he might remember things you didn't even know about..

I cant really predict if you guys will go out, but if you are in eachothers company and are having a lot of fun - he could develop feelings for you and things will go on from there..!

I think it's a good idea to not push things or be clingy to meet up with him as that could ruin a potential good friendship/relationship

Of course I am not accusing you of this, but don't get all "hung up" on the childhood thing. The typical he was my childhood sweetheart, and now I like him again etc etc, I am sure you arent like this but sometimes you need to highlight it as people who crushing on others can be seen as vunerable and gulliable - and I wouldnt want you to be upset if things dont work out the way you would want them to HOWEVER..I believe this isn't the case. I think you should keep your feelings to youeself for a bit - meet up, hang up, and prehaps if you still like him, and if you pick up on any signs that he might like you - prehaps ask him if he likes you etc.

I think you should go for it. You have nothing to lose, and its always great to know someone who has so much things in common with you and strong foundations, and good childhood memories.

Good luck

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(Rating: 5) Thanks and I'll wait a bit than ask him out! Is that good?
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