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Hey everyone. My name is Rachel, and I am fourteen, fifteen in June. I need help. Well, I have a HUGE crush on a guy at school. He's incredibly handsome, and hilarious. (My two need-haves, when it comes to guys.) But, here’s the problem. I'm a freshman he's a junior. He's 17 in May. It's not a problem for me, and he has a few Ex's in my grade, so it's not a problem for him either. But my mom is a whole other story. Well, I had transferred to my school at the beginning of the school year, and my mom had casually asked if I had any boys on the brain. I told her about... Well let's call him "T", and she said, "Well, you know he's too old for you, right?" I had no reply to that. That made me a little mad. I mean technically there's only a year in between us. ALSO, my mom and dad are married, and my mom is 42, my dad 48. Don't you think that's kind of hypocritical? I mean, I'm not being disrespectful, or I don't mean to be anyway, but I don't think that's very fair. If you ask me, I don't think T and I have that big of an age difference. But, if mommy says, Rachel does. If she tells me I can't date him, I won't, no questions asked. But if I convinced her otherwise and she said I could, I'd be content in doing so. So, lying and sneaking around is absolutely out of the question. But, I need a few tips on how to convince her that the difference isn't that large. Any ideas? Or even if you think the difference is big, give your opinion please! I will not judge or anything. Any advice will be accepted. Thanks~! J (link)
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Im 15 and me and my boyfriend are 5 years apart. So I kind of have an idea what you are talking about. My parents dissaprove about this and make big deals all the time that im dating him but they know I love him!(: You just just tell her that hes a nice boy and that before shes going to be judgemental she should get a chance to meet him ; he could be a good guy (:
Shes probably going to say something like well why would a 17 want to date a 14 year old anyways? Just explain to her that she cant judge you guys being together or him without meeting with him and talking to him about his future plans and stuff. So she knows he's going somewhere with his life! Hope I helpeddd!
If you need anymore help at all im here ;;
send me a message so I can talk to you personally(:
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Thanks Mandy! Oh my gosh I never have thought about it that way. I will ask advice if something comes up. Thanks again!
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