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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months ago yesterday. And for those 9 months I feel like im the ONLY ONE trying to make any effort keeping us together. For example im usually the one to call him I call him when I wake up and before I go to sleep. I see him over the weekends and sometimes at my house during the week. I think the reason he doesnt call me so much is because my parents told me I cant see him so I have to keep our relationship a complete secret from my family for 9 months. He says he loves me but I mean I talk to him maybe 3 times a day MAX and maybe 5 mins each if even that. And he says stuuff like this when I call "Hey , yeah Im doing chores right now ill call you when im done." Thats his excuse right now he said that at 11 this morning and its now 5:30 and still no call from him. I highly doubt it takes him that long too do a couple chores. And then that makes me have mixed feelings, like I try to hard to keep us together. I told him yesterday about how it makes me mad that he doesnt call me after he says "ill call you in like 10 mins" and it takes him hours or I just end up calling him. He makes me feeel like im the only one trying to keep us together and he doesnt care about us. I do want to stay with him so dont say break up with him. Do you think just not calling him for a while and see if he makes the effort to call me would be the best thing to do? Thannnks(:
Sorry it was so longggg.
wow... this is pretty much EXACTLY what i'm going through right now. that's so crazy.
but yeah i think you shouldn't call him until he calls you. see if he's actually in this with you. maybe he's just lazy, does he act different when you guys are actually together? i think you said he's been doing this since you guys have been together? that's actually a good sign, its probably just his personality, it drives you crazzyy i so understand you but i'd definetly try not speaking to him for awhile and see what he does. thats what i'm doing at the moment. good luck :)
(Rating: 5) Thannks(:
Yeah I think im just going to stop
calling him. good luck with you too(: