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Hi I'm Lily; 15 year-old Amercian girl. My friends have called me a fortune cookie...I don't know why ;) . I love to help, inbox me, if you like to. I specialize in Relationship & Friendship. I love my best friend Seth, I couldn't ask for a better friend (and hopefully one day boyfriend). He's quite the inspiration for me, I couldn't thank him enough for everything he's done for me. So I decided to help other likes he's helped me.
-Lily

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15/F

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months ago yesterday. And for those 9 months I feel like im the ONLY ONE trying to make any effort keeping us together. For example im usually the one to call him I call him when I wake up and before I go to sleep. I see him over the weekends and sometimes at my house during the week. I think the reason he doesnt call me so much is because my parents told me I cant see him so I have to keep our relationship a complete secret from my family for 9 months. He says he loves me but I mean I talk to him maybe 3 times a day MAX and maybe 5 mins each if even that. And he says stuuff like this when I call "Hey , yeah Im doing chores right now ill call you when im done." Thats his excuse right now he said that at 11 this morning and its now 5:30 and still no call from him. I highly doubt it takes him that long too do a couple chores. And then that makes me have mixed feelings, like I try to hard to keep us together. I told him yesterday about how it makes me mad that he doesnt call me after he says "ill call you in like 10 mins" and it takes him hours or I just end up calling him. He makes me feeel like im the only one trying to keep us together and he doesnt care about us. I do want to stay with him so dont say break up with him. Do you think just not calling him for a while and see if he makes the effort to call me would be the best thing to do? Thannnks(:

Sorry it was so longggg.

Jealousy. With-out breaking up with him, make him feel that if he doesn't try hold up his part in the relation-ship he'll lose you. Don't call him/ talk to him inless he calls/talks to you first (“hey” or “hi” are acceptable). Do you know where I'm getting at? Give him a taste of his own medicine. That's what I think though, Good luck.
-lily

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(Rating: 5) Thankks(:
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