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Last Update: April 8, 2009
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Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 1/2 has cheated on me twice and it took me a long time but im starting to trust him again. Well a while ago his best friend kissed me but it wasnt my fault it was like a 2 second peck and i had no idea he was going to do it plus i told my boyfriend right after it happened. Well my boyfriend told me that i had to stop talking to him and i understood and i did. then my boyfriend didnt like my best guy friend ( we've been friends since 5th grade (im now in 10th)) and he made me stop hanging out with him. Well the other night we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt trust me and he goes through my myspace all the time and he has people watch me and then he got on here and was at my home page and asked me why i put on here that i liked someone else and i was like what the heck are you talking about??? and he called me a liar to my face then i got on and found out he was reading a question that someone had wrote to me and ugghhhh! im so frustrated ive never ever gone through his stuff ever and hes cheated on me!!!! HELP!!! what do i do???? sorry this is so long i just need help! Thanks in advance. (link)
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All relationships are clearly not meant to be. Only a few really deserve your time and your efforts.
Don't turn a blind eye to these warning signs. It is time for you to separate the good relationships from the bad ... If you allow this guy to treat you like this, you are setting yourself up for disappointment and a possibly dangerous dating situation.
Right now I see several flags:
1. Cheats (which also probably means he lies)
2. Controlling (Remember that romantic partners are supposed to support each other rather than own each other. )
3. Disrespectful
4. Manipulative
5. Jealous/possessive
6. Secretive, suspicious, defensive
The deeper you get into a relationship, the more likely you and your partner are to show each other your true colors. So don't hold on to this guy because the relationship was once so 'wonderful' in the early stages.
Sometimes it’s easy to feel trapped by someone that you may be involved with, but you do have a choice on what to do next.
You deserve a stable relationship with someone that you respect, and that other person respects you.
Ask yourself this, if a friend of yours was relating some of these red flags to you, what would you say? If you would tell your friend its time to move on, move on to someone that will give you the relationship that you deserve.
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Wow that really helped and i never noticed most of those things. Thanks so much! =]
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