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for me getting guys has never been a problem, the problem is they always screw me over. every guy i go for, no matter how different they may seem they usually turn out to be worse than the last. ive been through sheer hell in the relationship department and have felt like giving up but as sad as it is, i really do need a man to feel happy. i dont know why, or if thats pathetic, but i am not happy alone. i never feel good enough for anyone and each relationship results in my ego becomming lower and lower. i honestly have no idea what i do wrong. i try very hard not to be annoying, i stay in shape, i try and do nice things for them, and i try to take things slow sexually. im good at sexual acts so my problem is not that i dont know what im doing physically, but emotionally rather. i used to believe it was the guys but now im beginning to question, is it me? and why doesnt anyone actually like me? why do they all just want to use me? why is everyone capable of getting into amazing and functional relationships and im not. if you have any advice please let me know. i would like to know how i can become more of a relationship person, and how to detect if a guy is just looking to use me. (link)
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maybe you're being too nice. i've had tha problem. they guy i dated was amazing before but then he became a complete jerk. it was because i let him. i let him do/say things he shouldn't have and just let him get away with it. it might be that. the might pick up off your behavior and see that you'll let them get away with whatever they want so they'll start doing things they shouldn't be doing it. thats one of the things that could be going on. it also might be that they just are how they are. they might just be a jerk and you don't know it. you can't blame it all on yourself. and if you end up falling for the wrong guys be more careful when you pick them. like get all your friends opinions and see how they treated their exs before you get into anything you might regret. and remember don't change for a guy. you are who you are and guys cannot accept you for that then it's their lose.
good luck.
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