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i dont understand people.
how come people always come to me to borrow or use something?
like, someone once said, "oh i would ask so-and-so but so-and-so is too nice."
its not like i know the person any less than so-and-so unless the borrower just felt more comfortable with me? or doesnt care about.. i dunno.
i dont get it. what are your principles when it comes to borrowing other people's stuff? (link)
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I think the reason why people borrow so much from you is because they see you as someone who is always prepared for anything. Someone they can always depend on. That is a plus because it adds so much to your character but of course it can be tiresome also because you would always have people coming to you for help. This is not really a problem though. I know it is hard to say no especially to people you are close to, but you can say it. Just do it nicely. Try saying things like, " I'm sorry I know you need this thing but I'm still using it at the moment." I don't borrow stuff from other people except from my sister because she has the coolest things. I get embarrassed because they might think I'm needy or something. Hope this helps.
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