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hey im 15.f

i have 2 questions to ask in this.

so heres the story (and oh yea who ever answers ill rate high because i really need help)

my boyfriend and i have been going out for about almost 2 weeks and those 2 weeks he fingered me. i gave me head and we had sex. alot of sex. my question is can i be any chance pragnet since we didnt use a condom the very first time and we were in he shower and he felt like he was gonna cum so he pulled out and waited a little and then we went agian. but he never came. that same day we used condoms but we had sex twice after the shower incident. then i came over agian yesterday and we had sex twice again but with a condom he came but we had a condom and everything was fine. but im just worried that what if i am pragnet and if there is a chance i can be.. because since the first time in the shower my mood changed and i got a small pain like all the way in mmy lower stomach by my vigina. im really scared and i dont know what to do im going to wait ffor my period to come but i dont know by then it might be to late.

another question is i regret having sex with him so much he says he likes me a lot but i feel like our relationship is moving wayyyyyyyy 2 fast and it old him that he said everything is fine and that he wont leave me because we had a thing in the past where i was dating my other boyfriend and he tried to convince me to break up with him so he must like me but idont what to do bout the sex ...and the moving fast

any help ill rate high thank u so much =]

yes there's a chance you could be pregnant. wait and see if you get your period or not and if you don't, get a pregnancy test at like cvs or something. i'm not trying to be mean but if you have to ask these questions then you shouldn't be having sex. not to scare you but there's also pre-cum, which does have sperm in it and condoms aren't 100% effective, they could break and a lot of other things can go wrong. you said that you did this after 2 weeks...i understand that people go at their own rate and i completely respect that but i quote you: "he says he likes me alot but i feel like our relationship is moving wayyyyyyyy 2 fast".. you're definetly right. i don't know this guy so i can't judge him but i know from experiences and a lot of my guy friends told me that guys that move to fast don't care as much about the girl as the ones who wait...sorry to bring me into this but i talked about this with my present boyfriend and when i said "i think we're moving too fast" he didn't say "everythings fine" he actually stopped and told me he wouldn't go anything until i was ready. just want you to know that it hurts when guys take advantage of you. i hope you make the right decision.

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(Rating: 5) thanx, i guess your right, i hope im not pregnet though . im only 15 =[

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