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Me and my girlfriend have been talking for about 6 months. But started being gf bf about 2 months ago. Everything was going great we would talk all day. But a couple of days ago i could tell something was wrong. At first she didnt tell me when i asked but when she did she said that it was about her ex boyfriend but didn't want to tell me what exactly happened. Because she said she didnt want to worry me and that i had nothing at all to worry about. She said dont worry ill get over it in a little bit. I went to bed right after that because i didnt want to think about it anymore. The next day i apologized for letting it bother me and i told her that i trust her. But since then we havent been talking like we use to. Sometimes we do but i still get this weird feeling that somethings not right. Im trying really hard to get back to the way i thought it use to be by surprising her and letting her know how much i love her.
My question is am i over thinking? I know she loves me. Another thing recently someone she knew passed away. (link)
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this is in regards to the comment you sent me:
i think thats its his sweet talking thats gotten to her. every girl loves to hear that, especially when more than one guy says it to her. but theres no way she could have serious feelings for him if shes never met him. so don't worry too much. i hope that answers your question.
if you need help with anything else, feel free to send me a private question.
she probably finds herself confused in her own thoughts. she might just need some time away because she doesn't want to say anything that she might regret because she will later find out its not true. also the death might be bothering her and she just wants to be alone.
but,
if it goes on too long that might be unfair to you.
so you should definetly confront her and ask her that you really need to know whats going on because you're her boyfriend and its your job to be worried.
good luck.
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Thanks for your advice. Its been a couple weeks and were pretty much back to how we were before. But the other day i thought i was going to have to end it. When she sent me a text after i left her house saying that She was really sorry and that she never ever meant to hurt me. I had no idea what she was talking about and i thought she was trying to tell me she cheated. So i call her up and she started crying and she told me she had talked to her ex over email. And he would type a letter for her every day since January. She read the letters for the first time and she said she felt something. It hurt alot considering everything i do for her. I talked to her friend that night when she wouldnt answer my calls. And her friend said my girlfriend would tell her how perfect of a boyfriend i am. I know im a great guy and ive shown that i would do anything for this girl. At the end of the night we decided to keep staying together and that all he is is a sweet talker. Im sorry for making this so long but uve given the best advice and i was wondering if you could answer another question for me. What do you think about what ive told you? With the letters and everything. She never met her ex boyfriend in person. And she talks like if they would be great together or something. Is she just to young to know what a relationship is really about?
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