Ask and it shall be answered by.... TheMaster
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Me and my girlfriend have been talking for about 6 months. But started being gf bf about 2 months ago. Everything was going great we would talk all day. But a couple of days ago i could tell something was wrong. At first she didnt tell me when i asked but when she did she said that it was about her ex boyfriend but didn't want to tell me what exactly happened. Because she said she didnt want to worry me and that i had nothing at all to worry about. She said dont worry ill get over it in a little bit. I went to bed right after that because i didnt want to think about it anymore. The next day i apologized for letting it bother me and i told her that i trust her. But since then we havent been talking like we use to. Sometimes we do but i still get this weird feeling that somethings not right. Im trying really hard to get back to the way i thought it use to be by surprising her and letting her know how much i love her.
My question is am i over thinking? I know she loves me. Another thing recently someone she knew passed away. (link)
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That's why dating is "dating" my friend. You are not married! A person is trying to figure out what and whom they want. This process many times produces numerous mistakes. If you love each other and enjoy being with her give her a little time. Many times these things have a way of working themselves out.
There also is a possibility that her heart is somewhere else, or somewhere in the middle. Again, a little time may sort this out.
Concerning the death of her friend, this is very difficult. Remind her that God has a plan for us all. She may just need to think things through.
GL TheMaster
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