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Mitch Moore, LONDON

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17/f
I have known this boy for years and we have always liked eachother. finally after years of on and off seeing eachother there was always a connection. finally we are together. we are in love and talk to eachtoher all the time and text 24/7. the down side is we only get to see eachother twice a week. he is very insecure and emotionally weak. he trusts me but every once in a while he says he has his doubts and can't trust other people. it takes him forever to get over things which bugs me because i never worry about anything and i get over things quicker than they begin. is there anyway i can fix this?

thanks soo much :)

Your ability to get over thing and move on is a good thing. Worrying is such a waste of time isn't it? Not everyone shares our outlook on life though. I don't think there is any way you can fix this, only your boyfriend can deal with his personal issues. You can help but he has to recognise he has a problem and want to change. If things go on as they are do you think it will begin to have a detrimental effect on your relationship?, I suspect it will. Maybe you should explain this to him. Defiantly talk about this, don't just plod on and pretend all is ok. MM

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much MM. :)
I'm glad someone shares my way of thinking.
you give some reaally good advice
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