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so I have a boyfriend.
I love him and we've been going out for almost 5 months. he is my prince charming and i love everything about him.
anyways.
theres this other guy i've known for almost 5 years. I used to have a crush on him but then i found my prince charming. I always suspected that he had a crush on me but i wasnt sure. I've always wanted to ask him about it but i never wanted it to ruin our friendship.
I wrote him a note the other day not to like start a relationship but to just find out if he ever did.
he read it after my friend gave it to him but he hasnt talked to me since.
I'm scared it has ruined our frinedship but I'm kinda to scared to talk to him about it.
Any advice, i really need it.

HI,
If you're so happy with your boyfriend and had such a good friendship with the other guy that you didn't want to jeopardise I wonder why you couldn't help 'rock the boat?' I suppose it's a case of curiosity killed the cat! Talk to your friend about this as soon as possible - the longer it's left the worse and more awkward it will get. Explain how important he is to you and how much you value your friendship and if it's so important to you to know if he had a crush on you, ask him. In future maybe bear in mind that talking honestly face to face is better than having a friend pass notes about! MM

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(Rating: 5) hey thanks.
yeah it was definatly a case of curiosity killed the cat.
your advice really helped
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