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I am in a situation where I care about my boyfriend a lot and I love him a lot but I know that I am not in love with him. I have reason to believe that he is in love with me. The thing is that I really don't want to hurt him because I know that we will not last forever but I think he thinks that we might make it through high school and stay together for a long time. But at the same time I don't want to break up with him because I DO like him. I just don't know what I should do sometimes.
Maybe youre looking at this the wrong way. You like him so dont break up with him. Just tell him you want to take it a bit slower, because youre not sure you love him. If he loves you enough he will wait for you until your true feelings show up. So tell him! I have a question for you though.
If you guys think you're not serious later after high school then why are you together? If he loves you then maybe he shouldn't be having those thoughts. It is as if he is planning something.
Dont you think?
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(Rating: 5) Thank you, you are probably right. I just sometimes feel like I may be leading him on and I definitely don't want to hurt him. But you're right, I should just take is as it comes. Oh and what I meant to say is that he loves me enough to marry me someday and I don't know if I feel the same. He's my second boyfriend and I just don't want it to be the last one. You know? Thanks again. :)