Member Since: February 24, 2009
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18 female.
so i have some trust issues. never had a boyfriend. but i seriously love my best friend nick. we've had SO much chemistry between each other but the thing is he recently broke things off with his girlfriend of two and a half years. he treats me different than he treats other girls. we've only kissed once and it was just a quick little peck. we're really attracted to each other but i'm still skeptical of his "ex" girlfriend because he says their still good friends and still talk since they did go out for so long and they were each others first loves. i just don't know when he tries to get with me, is he doing it because he likes me or because he just wants to be friends with benefits? is there a way to tell? we're both busy people so it's not like i get to see him very much but when i do he always asks whats new with me, he wants to know ANYTHING thats going on with me, and gets upset and says "you never tell me anything anymore!" i just don't know. i'm not a good communicator either, so asking him if he just wants to use me or really likes me would be awkward. we've been good friends for about four years now, maybe even longer. (link)
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from the information given here, it seems as if he is trying to get with you and not with a friends with benefits manor. If you are truly in love with the boy then you would be able to trust him with all force. i know how things are in these situations. Iv been there, iv done that.. iv been used, and so forth. but from what it sounds like the way he asks you how things are going, he's curious on what's going on, he wants to keep up to date on her. maybe so he can think about things, and if something is ever wrong, he would probably try to fix it. to me he seems to be someone trying to be with you; though his ex girlfriend, been together for 2 1/2 years; well that's nothing, a lot of people can end a long relationship and still be friends, it simply means they just lose interest in each other nothing bad happens or something along those lines... Basically, what im saying is, Go with your heart... because thats always the best way to go. he seems to be a nice guy, maybe give him a chance? if the worse seems to happen you still have the rest f your life to look forward too. We learn from our mistakes, but i don't think this will be a mistake in your case :)
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