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ok. um, this is kinda...akward...and scary.
so, me and this guy (we'll call him L) have been going out for the past year. he's one year older than me. L's always been real sweet about the whole sex thing, but lately, he's been...pushing, and i'm kinda scared, cause he's getting kinda angry/violent. i'm scared he's really gonna hurt me, cause he hit me last week when i made him stop, taking of clothes and stuff.
I dont know what to do.
Help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? (link)
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RUN, don't walk away from this relationship.
He is using bullying tactics to get you to be submissive. Date rape is very possibly his next move. At a minimum, he will continue to escalate his violent behavior to meet his own needs.
Also, talk to someone you trust about your fears. if you don't have anyone in your life you want to open up to, call a hotline for abuse.
If he is threatening in ANY way - verbally, physically, go to the police and get a restraining order put on him. I would even consider it now since he has already hit you. When (not if) you break up with him, do it in a public place and have your own ride home.
You are smart to be concerned. Don't allow him to make you a victim. Empower yourself.
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a public place...that's a REALLY good idea. i never thought of that. thanks i'll do that.
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