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I HAD a problem. since i was 12 i started cutting. I dont know how to explain it to people that dont do it becuase its something you have to have gone through to understand. its like a drug i was addicted for 4 1/2 years, slowly killing myself. anyway everyone found out and i had to stop.
the question is like what am i supposed to replace it with. Ive tryed running writing (which is my passion) and everything in between. I just need some good advice as how to stop.
Please help, anything will be appreciated. (link)
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ok this might sound a little random, but trust me IT WORKS.
try going in a room, turning the lights out, putting on headphones or a CD player, and put on crank up a high energy emotional song (for example try helena by my chemical romance) and then just dance, scream the lyrics and forget everything around you. it really works trust me!
also, by cutting yourself, you were doing nothing but dwelling on whats negative in your life and what made you cut yourself in the first place. instead of dwelling in the past, try to eliminate what had happened and move foward, because its only weighing you down. you are only as good as you believe you are, and learing to respect yourself is the first step. truly everyone has something great about them find that something great!
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Thanks you really helped me and I'll definantly try that.
about the whole dwelling in the past thing yeah i agree theres just some things i cant bring myself to get over no matter how hard i try.
its a forgivness thing.
thanks for the advice
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