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okay so on friday me and my boyfriend had sex kinda it was like only a couple of minutes haha of course we used a condom (YAY safetey) and it was my first time that a guy ever put his penis all the way in. ya it hurt like a bitch but not to much so an hour later when i came home i used the bathroom and i started bleeding like a little bit it wasnt tons of it but you know and iknew it wasnt my period becuase it didnt look like that kind of blood ( i just ended my period the day before though) and im still kind of sore now and its sunday but only when i wipe. just wondering if thats normal.? and i want to do it again on friday like till we finish or he does idk if it will feel good for me or will it hurt still or less? will i bleed again? when will it start to feel good? (link)
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Wow! you do have a lot of questions so let's get to them shall we? First of all, yes it is normal to bleed a bit the first time you have sex. The hymen, a very thin membrane in your vagina has been pierced so it will bleed a little bit. But it should not bleed again the next time you have sex. As to if it will hurt again as much, no it shouldn't. It should feel good the next time you have sex but you have to be in the mood for sex. You should be sexually aroused which makes you wet in the vagina and this normal lubrication will help the motion of your bodies. You should encourage your boyfriend to have foreplay before sex and this should lubricate your body to prepare it for the intercourse. If you are nervous or not ready for sex, don't let any boy force you into doing something you are not ready for. I am proud of you for using protection. You should always use protection and get on the pill if you are going to have sex again. Contact me agian any time if you have more questions.
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THANK YOUUUUUUU SOO MUCH god i felt like iwas waiting for ever for someone to answer im gettin on the pill in march so thankssss :]
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