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okay well my boyfriend is having a party in two weeeks and i really am excited. The only bad thing is is that all his friends do drugs and drink. My boyfriend dosne't do these things but he still will allow it at his party. I have 2 problems

1. I cant tell my parents because they would not let me go if that stuff was going on there. i have never been to a party like this before so i am kinda nervous myself.

2. My friends are super good and won't come of there is drugs and alcohol there either so i will be by myself. My boyfriend is super popular and it is his party so he will be mingling with others there to. Not just me.

So what should i do?

Don't go. Simple as that.

Explain why to your boyfriend, and plan a day together for just the two of you so he doesn't get hurt. Bake him cookies or a cake, or YOU take HIM out to dinner to make it up to him.

Edit: didn't say to make him cancel his party. Just don't go to it if you don't want to be in that environment.

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(Rating: 3) its his party so he cant just blow it off.

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