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Hello, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months but we live in different cities (guelph cambridge) we do however see each other 3 to 4 times a month. Lat night we had a date and it was... AMAZING. we talk every night on webcam but... Now after the date I am loving her more than ever and only being able to see her like 4 times a month well... its just TEARING ME APART!! I don't know what I'm asking for here i just want some advice on what to do we see each other as much as our scheduals can handle but its just not enough anymore so please pleeeeeeease help.
Thanks in advance! Bye

19/M

One of the main reasons you love her so much is because you don't get to see her all the time. The best part is--guess what--she's feeling exactly the same way! I know you feel as if you can't live this way for one more damn minute, but she is feeling exactly the same way. You two have been together for six months, and if you would have been able to see eachother more often you wouldn't feel as in love as you do now. After six months most couples have gotten past the honeymoon phase and are well on their way into taking eachother for granted. Because of the distance between you, your honeymoon phase is going to last a lot longer-believe me-you're really so lucky. Every time you get to see eachother you have a great time. You do fun things together because you actually bother to plan. She is dying to see you. She looks foward to every phone call, every shared moment. If you lived closer she would already be picking up on little things that bug her about you.
I know sometimes it feels a little like torture, but it is a good torture because you are lucky enough to be in love.

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