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Hey, my name is Katie. I live in Australia with my fiance and 2.5 beautiful children. In my 24 years i have had many ups and downs. I've lost loved ones, I've suffered depression, I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship which ended badly, I've cheated and been cheated on, I've been homeless, I've had cancer... Thats just the tip of the ice-berg. I think I'm pretty well qualified to answer pretty much anything you throw at me.
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Age: 23
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Well, I have lived in a marriage for 28 years. It has been very rocky since day one. I have learned that my spouse cannot have intimacy. I have known this for some time. We have had counceling(one year) and it was getting better, but now, he is back in is shell again. We have never had intimacy, Only sex sometimes, usually none, and now, none for 3 years. He is a good person, I guess this is why I have stayed. I have left 3 times and go back. I am so so so lonely, I dream of being happy. I dream of being with someone that I can laugh with and cry with. I feel I am to old now, at 52 and female, to be starting over. I guess I feel bad for him. We have nothing in common, and all these years, I have lived the most lonliest life ever. He is a hard worker, but that is all.
Communication is what you need right now. Tell hiim you're feeling unhappy and are thinking of leaving him for good. Because you've left him before and came back he'd probably expect you to do the same thing. But i think its time to get out of there. There are plenty of men your age and younger who would love to make you happy and make you laugh and give you the sex that you've not had in 3 years. Just the fact that you're asking for advice means that you are very unhappy. Some people say maiirage is sacred and you should stick it out no matter what, but happiness, to me, is a far more sacred thing!! A life without a marriage may be lonely, but a life without happiness... thats no life at all...
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You have very good advice. Your last statement hits me hard. I want to thank you. I know the answer,but I needed someone else to say it. I can tell you are a kind person. Thank you again.
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