Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Member Since: January 25, 2009
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So i lost my virginity almost a year ago it was extremly painful and my guy barly got his penis in because it was too painful for me. The second time i had sex with him it hurt again really badly i was starting to get frustrated then i had sex a couple weeks ago with a differn't guy and it was also extremly painful now i do not have any std's and i do not have a urinary infectionn or anything like that i already got that checked out but i want to know why it is so incredibly painful when i have sex i want to be able to have good sex is it because i don't trust my partners and i'm worried and afraid does it cause me to be uncomfortable i just need some advice im 17 and Female (link)
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Hello,well sex is different for everyone,some girls are tighter than others and the intercourse can be very painful.It can be that you are uncomfortable,you being uncomfortable makes you tighten your vaginal muscles and makes it harder for the guy to enter the vagina,also there may not be enought lubrication when the guy first enters you,When there is not enough lubrication from you or from a store bought lubricant it ca cause friction in you vagina and can be very painful and uncomfortable. When you have sex again you should make sure you re well lubricated and its probably going to be hard for you to relax and loosen up because now you have associate sex with pain. This best thing for you to do is to masturabate if you are comfortable with this,it gives you a chance to understand what pleases you and gives you a chance to break that association between pain and sex. You are usually more comfortable with yourself when it coems to sex but if you still arent comfortable with yourself when it comes to sex then maybe you should wait until you are to have intercourse again. When you masturbate you can start with one finger and once you get comfortable,keep using more..MAKE SURE YOU ARE WELL LUBRICATED even during this. You can always use a dildo as well but that might be very painful as well so you can start with one finger and maybe move up to a dildo if time permits. This pain will subsie in time you just have to become comfortablw with yourself and get use to it as a whole..remember:practice makes perfect so you will be able to have painless sex in not time:).I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic I would be happy to help you just send a private message. Hope everything goes well and you can update me on the situation if you need further advice:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:).
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Thank you very much for your help and ill remember to do that
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