Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
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Its been really weird for me. Last year in 8th grade I was always upset because of different things going on. I did cut myself like 3 different times during that year. My friends were always there for me and everything. I have done way better a little after the beginning of 9th grade. I feel horrible now. I feel so upset and I'm always crying at night. But the thing is that I am only crying at night. I don't ever feel so upset during the daytime. Is something wrong with me? I feel like I'm so horrible at everything I do. Mostly because of school, I'm not doing good in two of the subjects and I'm just not getting it and I just break down. I mean besides that though, everything is so great but I don't feel any better. I have a good family, we fight but not as much as before, parents still together but almost got divorced a few months ago, the greatest friends in the world, and my boyfriend who treats me like I'm the best thing in the world. How come I'm not happy with this? At night I try to talk to my friends on the phone because then I start feeling better. They can't talk at night alot though because of how late it gets. I don't know why but I'm only happy during the daytime or with my friends. I feel so upset during one of my classes at school though, only because its not my best class. I don't think I'm really ugly except at times when I'm thinking, "why would my boyfriend like me, I'm not even that pretty" and then I start comparing to other girls. Last year I was worse I guess, I would be upset all day and with my friends but right now I don't know whats really going on. I'm only 14 and I don't get it. Sorry it was long and thanks for any help. (link)
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Hello,first off I am so sorry that you are feeling this way, it is bad enough to have deal with lives daily pressures but to feel sad for unknown reasond makes it even worse. I know you dont know why get sad at night but I am telling you there is a reason,emotions can be very confusing but with the right imformation they can be jusr as aesily explained.You have to ask yourself whatr is on my mind when I am at home alone by myself,there is something that triggers this sadness,it is most likely your thoughts maybe your unconcious thoughts,What do you talk to or want to talk to your friends on the phone about exactly regarding why you are sad,i fyou can answer these qestions I can possibly give an answer to the reason you may be getting upset also whatever reason you cut yourself in the past may be a cause if this sadness,there are so many reasons you could be feeling this way,it could be that you dont like being alone and the fact that you know your friends are there for you gives you comfort.When you are alone at night this is probably the only time you are alone and have time to really think about you and your life this can be causing this oriblem, If you dont mind dont mind do you think you can answer 6those questions I stated before to your self or even to me in aprivate message,they will help you greatly to figure out what is going on. A more optimistic outlook on things is also, if you think about it you have so much to ber happy for and I am sure you know this,I mean you hav great friends,a caring boyfriend(which is hard to find)and a family that loves you dearly,school may not be going that well currntly but all you have to do is take the right steps to improving your grades. The first step is figuring out the problem you have then taking the right steps to fix them. Do not ever think that about your self,I am sure no I know you are a beautiful girl inside and out and that is why your boyfriend likes you.He likes you for you and all that you have to offer,he sees something special in you that attracts him to you and I am sure you guys will last for a long time to come because he seems very sweet andkind hearted,you are bery lucky to have a guy that treats like you deserve to be treated because you only deserve the best,comparing your self to other girls is pointless becaue everyone is unique in their own way,you are beautiful,amazing and unique there is no one in the world like you and you dont need anyone to tell you that because you have to beleive it,it wont be hard to believe because it is true. You can also try to do more things that make you happy,because you have to focus on yourself before you can give yourself to anyone else,you have to make sure you are happy and satisfied,read a book or watch a movie you always wanted to,just do somethin you know intersts you and that makes you smile if you have no clue what these things are just write them downs,write down your likes and dislikes and you will know exactly what makes you happy!I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic I would be happy to help you just send another private message. Hope everything goes well.NEVER FORGET HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE IN EVERYWAY!!:) :) SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) ;) ;) ;) :0 :) :0 :) :) :) ;)
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