Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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Okay,first off i haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years,(15/f.blah.whatever)and it only lasted a month. I know people always say "love yourself before you can love someone else"- i do, and i have great friends and i'm really happy.I know i dont need a guy to be happy- Its just I reaaaally want to be in love! Its not helping that all of the sudden theres like romance everywhere,but me, all aloonnne!its like taunting me haha.I keep envisioning meeting "the guy of my dreams" at like the movies or the mall-because i heard if you do this you can attract it to happen-but none of it works!I can't be set up with people,no no no. I'm not ugly,i have a great personality. Its just the fact that its impossible for me to ever meet a guy anywhere! So i guess what i'm asking is- How can i meet guys at like the mall or something like that? And have you ever had a -love-at-first-sight thing happen to you? If you have,what happend? Thanks so much for the imput and advice! (link)
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Hello,you may feel like you are the only one with this problem but in actuality alot of people have this same problem and it can be pretty upsetting being alone. You are still very young and actually kids at your age do not share true love ,the relationships usually last for a few weeks and are gone,its just off and on with random guys. I f you want true love you have to be friends with someone first,someone that undestands you,tha you are comfortable with,someone that care for you and that loves you for you. You cant turn love off and on its rare to find true love because so many guy are still very immature and noot willing or ready to open up. Well you can meet a guy anywhere you go,just out in public a guy may approach you or you may approach him but since you are very young you obviously cant go to a club or anything so at school might be your best bet. Also when you are looking for love and for a boyfriends it usually never happens,things usually come when you least expect it I know it may be hard to get this off of your mind when you see relationships everywhere,but if you keep in mind an optimistic attitude and know that there is someone out there for you,someone special then you will feel that much better.It may take awhile for you to meet that guy but its such a refreshing and warm feeling to know there is someone special out there waiting for you,to care for you and to be there for you in every wya.dont fret your life is just beginning you are going to have plenty of experinces with guys do not worry. I am 17 and have yet to be in a relationship,I have talked to many guys but you will find that it is hard to actually meet a guy you connect with and that you know will be there for you,what keeps me going is the fact that I know that there is someone out there for everyone you just have to be patient.If you keep thinking about it and let it consume your mind it will make everything worse,beleive me I have been there,just go with the flow,go where ever life takes you and everything will fall into place and will be fine.Your time will come!!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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that gives me hope, and hopefully you find someone as well! thank you :]
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