Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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me and my ex dated a few months ago, for about two months. we were crazy about each other, but we just didnt work out, for the stupidest reasons. afterwards, we tried to be friends, but i was mean and ignored him to try to make him want me back, and eventually we just stopped talking. well, now, after not talking for so long (but me still thinking about him everyday and missing him like crazy) he just got a girlfriend. and i mean she's really not that great, and he doesn't seem very interested in her. what should i do? talk to him? i never see him anywhere. so i could like text him.. but what should i say? and how should i act? or should i just be upfront and tell him i want him back even though that would probably scare him off and i'd get rejected. i mean, he DOES have a girlfriend. what to do!? =[ (link)
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Hello,well if you really have these feelings for him that are this strong then you should definitley be open and talk about it, it is worth a shot because you never know what could happen,you dont have to direclty say I want you back or anything because that would probably turn him off and even though you probably are not fond of his new girlfriend that would be pretty rude,just think if you were with him and an ex did that you would be pretty upset. just simply maybe say hi and if he does not respond like through a txt or if he calls and you dont respond then you know it wasnt meant to be and just move on,but if he responds you could just ask how he has been and that you miised talking to him,which is reasonable to say since you guys did date and where crazy over eachother. You should act no certain way just be yourself,acting differently will never work. If he really has strong feelings for you then he will more than likely come back to you but if not then you have to move on,that just means he is not the guy for you,there are plenty of guys out there for you and will like and accept for you for you,peoppe are put in your life for a reason but they are not there forever unless they are meant to be.Dont worry about it at all if he is not the one for you,I am sure you are quite young and even older women dont have realtionships and things just dontworkout,it just takes time to find that right guy!So just think positive and everything will be fine:)I hope this helped,if you have any further qustions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message,the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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thank you so much. that was really helpful and i will definitely try what you said. and i'll try to let you know how he responds, because i'll probably be needing more help =]
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