Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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Okay. I have been off and on with my current boyfriend for almost 2years! Ive done some real stupid bad things during the time we were broken up. I dont know if i did these things cause i was hurt or no. When we broke up the last time he got a girl and it really hurt me bad even though i made the decision to break up. Anyways i started to talk to alot of guys to get him off my mind but it didnt work. During this time i half way had sex wit two guys. .when i say half way i mean it started but i stopped! With one of the guys the condom broke and i got sooo damn scared of being pregnant, std's, everything! So i took this pill called the plan b, its suppose to kill all sperm cells and it did! Thank God i wasnt pregnant! But the real problem is, about a month ago my friend called me and told me that she heard that he had something and i freaked out. I went to get tested before but i never came back for the results! I am now back with my ex(of almost 2years) and we have had sex and oral sex plenty of time before i got the phone call. Nothing feels different too me but im just scared. I called and ask the guy and of course he denied it but i still made a appointment to get checked out! Im sooo scared of having something. Im not scared for myself cause if i had something i would take responsibility and get cured but i just scare of me giving him something and him leaving me! He dont know about this or the guy. Im planing on telling him but not now! What do i do? How do i tell him if i do have something? Am i a whore? ugggh! Please help! (link)
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Hello,well first off you are absolutley not a whore, everyone makes mistatkes and its not like you went around sleeping with tons of guys when you broke up with your boyfriend after all you barley did because you stopped it, which was agood choice. More importantly communication is vital in any relationship if you want him to trust you and beleive that you can be there for him you first have to be open and honest about any and everything. Since you guys have had many sexual encounters if you do have an STD then you more than likely have passed it on to him as well. It is better to tell him as soon as possible the whole situation in detail that you might have an STD it is better for him to find out now than in the future without you telling him that shows that you do not truly care for him because passing an STD to a boyfriend is pretty intense, in a relationship you have to be honest or you will have nothing, if you tell him now it will be easier and way less stressful because if he finds out on hiw own that you were carelessly having sex with him while maybe being infected it will hurt him in a numerous amount of ways and you will more than likely loose his trust,friendship and everything else that comes along with a relationship also it will be very uncomfortable and not enjoyable if you have sex with him knowing that you are possibly infecting him. So what you have to do is have a serious hear to heart conversation with him and put EVERYTHING on the table, In this situation he could either accept your mistake get checked with you and move on or become really angry and not want to be with you because of the decision you made, If you get your results soon and find out that you are not infected than a huge burden will be lifted off of your shoulders and you will feel less guilt. I hope this was helpful if you need any more advice on how you should approach him with this information or anything else for that matter I am here,you can send me a private message and I will be glad to help you with anything..the best of luck to you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Thanks! I pray im not but if i am trust me you will be receiving a message from me lol.
Thanks again =].
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