Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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thank you for reading this. i have a problem with my friends. latley things have nto been nearly of how great they used to be. there are these two that i thought i was really closed to. well i found out that they pretended to be someone asking me out on myspace but turns out it was really them. but i found this out about a month after it happened and they pretended to be him on the phone. i completly feel humilitated becuase i thought they trusted me. they are extremly sorry for that they did and i know i should forgive them but i have 0 trust for them right now. what should i do? should u be their friends or shold i try to move on. oh . . . one more thing. we are different people. they talk about sexual things a lot and im a christian with a purity ring. we have fun together but sometimes i think things go overboard. what should i do? (link)
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Hello,first off you should do what makes you feel comfortable,your feelings are at stake here.A true friend is honest,caring,someone you share similar qualities with,someone who cares for you and someone that you feel comforatble with overall. From what you are saying i do not think these are true friends,their qualties are almost opposite from yours and this could cause you to fall into temptaion with you being christian and not wanting to talk about sex because of your values.If they were truly your friends they would talk about sex alittle less or not at all when they around you,but they are pretty young so they probabaly do not take what you care about most and your values into consideration. If a REAL friend knew you liked someone and had a general interest in the they would never ever pretend to be him asking you out that is very immature and I am pretty sure it hurt your feelings.When you have a friend
they shoule be their to help you when your feelings are hurt not be the one hurting your feelings. Also everyone cannot be labled as your friend,just because you have a good time with them does not make them your friend,I true firend is hard to find and you will know a real friend when you have one because you will feel that special bond. You should definitley move on from them and or just label them as associates,friends do not bring your life down in any way,only up!!I hope this helped,If you have any further questions regarding this topic or any other topic for that matter do not hesitate to send me a private message I will honered to be of aid to you..The best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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