Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Member Since: January 25, 2009
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my life is crazy when it comes to guys. i can't seem to settle down with just one, so i feel the need to talk to many. ive been talking to one of the guys for over 6 months, he really likes me. and i like him too. but then again i think im falling for my best friend. also, there's new guys that come into my life. im out of control. i dont really go on dates with them, or hook up with them much. i just talk to them constantly. sometimes i hang out with them. and they do kiss me or so, but its nothing big. i think im like this because my past relationship really scarred me. i dont trust guys. but i dont know what to do anymore. help? thank you (link)
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Hello,well yes you are right,your past realtionships have a big effect on the way you are now, I think you talk to all of these guys and dont fully open up simply because you are afraid of getting hurt. You use all these other guys as a safety net so you wont get hurt again in anyway. The big question here is do you honestly want to change because if you do and you dont at the same time this wont work you have to be fully commited and know what you want. I am sure you do want a relationship but you arent giving the guys a chance to really get to know you or maybe yoiu just havent found that right guy that you really want to open up to and get to know. If you really want to stop then you should dimply say hey what do I want and go from there. You have to be truthful and honest with yourself, you do not need a guy to make you feel good, you have to feel good about yourself and learn that you can be independent without the constant need of attention. A girl cab get attention from any guy, sure it is enjoyable to know that you are wanted but you are past this stage, you know guys want you but now its time to know that having attention from a guy that really cares and has a general interest in you is way more fulfilling than just any guy. It is time to choose who might be potential relationship material it is either from what you say, the guy that you have been talking to for 6 months or your bestfriend and once you are not afraid to open up and accept what they have to offer you wont crave that attention from a number of other guys. What you need is one guy to show you all the attention you need and more:) I hope this was helpful and the best of luck to you,if I was not detailed enough or if you have any further questions you can send me a private message I am open to here and listen.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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