Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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im very depressed
my good friend died of a brain tumor july 29th 07
and i misss her sooo much still
i cannot deal with it it never gets easier
i dont know what to do
everything reminds me of her .
i cry. and i miss her
.we were so much alike
we were suppose to do so much together
she was only sixteen
and its not fair
and.. i want her back
i do not know what to do
i just cant ever face it, or believe it
or..move on.
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Hello,first off I am very sorry yo hear about your friend it is always hard to loose someone close because it is hard to actually meet someone that you share the same valuse with and connect with. I am sure you know that you are not alone in this situation,many many people have lost loved ones and it is ok to grieve, it is the inevitable. However as you know things happen,whether good or bad for a reason,i know it no good to simply say you have to move on because that is not fair to say. I know you are trying to move on and it is difficult. It will help to think of the good times you spent with her and when you are reminded of her appreciate all the good qualities she had to offfer. Be thankful that you had her in your life because just know that everyone,no matter how close they are to you is put in your life for some reason. I know it seems hard now but I am telling you,you will get through you will see that crying over it everytime you think of her does no good,try to smile everytime you think of her,it will do wonders. You know you obviously wont get her back but you have the memories and she is here in spirit,you know that she will never be replaced or forgotten but always in you heart and she knows that. If she could some how talk to you she wouldnt want you crying when you think of her because after all when she was here she brought you joy.Let her bring you joy even though she is not here,you can stilltalk to her in spirit,she will here you and it may be a way to cope during this difficult time.Try to think postive,negative thoughts bring you down and are what cause depression try to alter your thinking and you will be just fine:)..I hope this was helpful,being depressed is a bad state to be in and causes many problems, dont get hung up on the things you cant change,focus on the present and try new things,do thing s that make you happy,any thing big or small it will be VERY beneficial:) if you have further quesions or if you would like anymore advice on this topic or anything I am here.Just send me a private message and I will be sure to answer even if you need someone to talk to I am here to listen,those who are depressed or fell depressed often feel alone and need to let all of there negative thinking out I can help you replace these negative thoughts with positive ones:)..The best of luck to you and dont get yourself down:) :) :) :) ;) ;0 :0 =P
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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thankk youuu... i reallyyyy like yourr reysponse!
andd im going to try all of that it really seems like it will help
!! :D
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