Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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i've been 'dating' this guy for about 4 months...when we first started this whole thing, he told me that he wasn't planning on us being boyfriend-girlfriend. i understood because he had just been dumped by his ex and to tell you the truth i like dating better then being boyfriend-girlfriend.
my problem with this is that he doesn't think twice about ignoring me, ditching me, or going days without talking to me. i also don't like not being able to say anything when girls are all over him. i called him on it once and he confessed that he liked the other girl too. that really hurt me and all my friends tell me to break up with him but i won't. i really really like him and right now he was actually supposed to be hanging out me...instead he's 'studying' with his bestfriend, who is also my ex just to put the cherry on top, which usually amounts to them playing basketball & guitar hero.
i'm also REALLY bad at being mad at him. we've only been in one fight & it was about that girl. i hate being disappointed and even though i totally prepare myself for it, it still hurts.
what should i do? (link)
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Hello,well I dont actually see too many differences between the whole dating thing and the relaitonship thing. I think he chose that over a relationship because he simply doesnt want to commit he wants to have you and know that you are there but still have the freedom to talk and flirt and whatever else with other girls. The way you are feeling seems as if you want more and right now I cant see him doing that. If he really wantee that he would show it, I mean by him ignoring you,saying he likes another girl he isnt showing that he fukly cares for you. You want someonethat is going to respect you and care about you and he obviously is doing neither,I guess the dating thing would be fine if the guy actually cared enough about you to never ignore you and show that he cared some what and giving you the attention you deserve. Frankly I do not hink he deserves you from the way he is acting he isnt showing that he wants to be "dating" you. You should definitley lay off of him for awhile and see what happens it is always excellent and very heplful to talk to him about how you feel about this situation becuase I doubt if he even knows you are upset or if he even cares. You also dont know how he is feeling about the two of you because he says he wants to date you but the way he is acting does not show it at all and as the say "actions speak louder than words". Communication is important and without out it you can not have a stable relationship whether it be with a friend or a boy so be open and honest and you will get far. You are young its no fun to fell this way about a boy that might not be worth it. I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I would be happy to answer them on this topic or any other topic for that matter,just send me a private message and I will be happy to help you. Just remember to never settle for just anything,you are worth having the best!!!The best of luck to you
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Thank you so much. That was fantastic advice & helped me tons
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