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Hi! I’m a 19 year old girl and since 4 months I have a boyfriend who is also 19. I am really happy with him, but lately there has been a thing that is starting to bug me. I recentlty got my black belt in hapkido and I’m very proud over that. Since then my boyfriend has been more or less challenging me to “show what I can do” or he says he won’t believe that martial arts would work for “a little girl” like me against a guy. My mother is from India, and like her I’m rather short (5’4’’), but he is no giant (like 5’10’’) either and even though I don’t look like it, I’m actually pretty strong, from all my training. I know there are a lot of things I could do to defeat a bigger opponent like him and I really want to prove it to him. But at the same time I don’t want to risk hurting him or embarrass him, cause I love him… What should I do? (link)
start doing something boyish, like skateboarding

and prove him wrong haha

not that skateboarding is boyish, it's just a predominantly male thing, u know? i do it and im a girl

but im just saying.... prove him wrong


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As I wrote, I am doing something my boyfriend thinks is "boyish". I do martial arts and I am good at it. I want to prove him wrong, but I don't want him to be embarrassed...




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