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I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.

I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.

I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).

I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.

Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.

Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.

Thank you for coming to my column and giving me the chance to help.
E-mail: gibber@cableone.net
Gender: Male
Location: Minnesota
Age: 53
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I want to find some books to read on my bus trip. I loved a million little pieces so i want another book like that. Autobiographys, true stories, so on. Sorry if thats not enough info. (link)
This is Gilbert Mar's wife.... Since I do the reading in the family he thought I could better answer your question.

Jodi Picoult has many interesting stories that can really hold your attention. Ninteen Minutes was a real page turner for me.

Anything by Janet Evanovich is very intertaining but not very thought provoking. I'm addicted to her books.

James Patterson is one of the best authors on the planet, in my opinion. Any one of the "Cross" books released recently are excellent mystries.

I'm presently reading a biography of Mother Theresa that is quite deep but interesting. If thats your kind of thing.

White Oleander is a weird book but if you like teen drama its full of it and then some. (kinda raunchy)

Hope this helps some.
Be well
Mrs Mar


Rating: 5
thank you very much. i am also happy that you guys are on advicenators as a family.




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