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For a long time I had a friend who I didn't know so well and wouldn't see very often, who really liked me. He told me he liked me but at the time I really didn't feel the same way. In all honesty, I never thought I'd like him and I told my mom about the situation. I really cared about him and knew that he was really hurt because I didn't like him. So months went by. Then we hung out again, and I felt something small for him that day, but I denied it and tried to make it go away. Then we hung out again. My best friend was with us too but she had to leave early. After that I was alone with him for a few hours. It was awkward at first but we started talking and I felt connected to him. I feel like I started seeing a part of him that I had never seen before. That day I accepted that I liked him and told my friend. So after that we hung out more and I told him that I liked him. I went on a date with him and it was really fun! I mean I was really happy to be with him and everything. So a few days ago he asked me out. But today my mom was talking to me and she brought him up. So she knows something is up with us because we are together a lot now and she basically told me that I should only do something because I want to and not because someone else wants me to. She went on and on and now I'm doubting my feelings for him?!?! But he couldn't have convinced me to like him right? How is that possible? I don't want to doubt my feelings for him but I can't have a boyfriend when I'm not sure how I feel about him. Maybe if I explain it to her I'll feel better but I don't know. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.
Every single relationship is so because one person convinced another person to like them. Tell your mom that you weren't really attracted to him physically, but the more you got to talking to him, the more you realized that you really liked his personality. your mother will appreciate the fact that you are getting more mature and not only going for looks. If you aren't really sure about your feeling for him, let him know that you are a little confused. Tell him that you really want to keep things light right now, and you're not into putting a label on your relationship, and you want to get to know eachother a little bit better.
(Rating: 4) Thank you :) You are right because at first he didn't strike me as amazingly hot but over time I came to appreciate who he is.