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Hey, my name is Katie. I live in Australia with my fiance and 2.5 beautiful children. In my 24 years i have had many ups and downs. I've lost loved ones, I've suffered depression, I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship which ended badly, I've cheated and been cheated on, I've been homeless, I've had cancer... Thats just the tip of the ice-berg. I think I'm pretty well qualified to answer pretty much anything you throw at me.
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Location: Australia
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Age: 23
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all of my friends, or pretty much all of them, have hooked up with a guy/guys. I haven't. and they are all so pretty :[ AND DON'T TELL ME THAT I AM PRETTY BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME. i think im not appealing to guys. i don't have boobs. and actually, some of my friends don't either, but that's not the point ... i guess. I've had like ... 3 boyfriends. 2 were just flukes. one i really liked alot, but we only kissed, never hooked up. i guess i was scared? *because he has hooked up before* and then we broke up. but anyways, just the other day one of my "friends" was like ... well everyone has hooked up by now...duh. and i was like, no they havent, i know people who havent. and she was like, have you? and i lied. i said i did. because i didn't want to feel like a loser. because maybe i should have ALREADY hooked up with a guy. but again, no guys like me. and im only attracted to the ones who are out of my league, not available, or ex's. I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG OR WHAT I AM DOING WRONG OR ANYTHING. any advice is appreciated. i guess. ugh. will it ever be my turn ?! ugh. and you don't have to tell me what i want to hear, im on this site for the truth. okay? thanks in advance.
OK firstly i was in your position at your age. Well i was almost 16, but still, i hadnt hooked up with a guy and all my friends were already sleeping around! I didnt have boobs for a long time either. I had alot of 'boyfriends' but we never did anything.
You just have to go for it. Put yourself out there. Alot of the time it isnt about what you look like on the outside, but what you have on the inside .. like personality. I know its cliche and everyone says it, but its true. If you're quiet and awkward guys will tend to pass you over for perhaps the more outgoing but slightly uglier friend.
Your friends probably dont mean to be nasty. I lied about not hooking up with guys for a long time and ended up pashing on with some random for the first time at a party cos my friends thought i had.
There isnt anything wrong with you. Dont stress about it. And dont be afraid to hook up with guys. Its not as hard as you probably think it is. And once you've found the right person ... someone whos a great kisser (like i have :-D) you just wont be able to stop!
It will be your turn. Just grab the bull by the horns and GO FOR IT!!! If you make a mistake the first time, laugh it off and go for it again!
Good luck!
katie
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thankss :] alot.
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