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all of my friends, or pretty much all of them, have hooked up with a guy/guys. I haven't. and they are all so pretty :[ AND DON'T TELL ME THAT I AM PRETTY BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME. i think im not appealing to guys. i don't have boobs. and actually, some of my friends don't either, but that's not the point ... i guess. I've had like ... 3 boyfriends. 2 were just flukes. one i really liked alot, but we only kissed, never hooked up. i guess i was scared? *because he has hooked up before* and then we broke up. but anyways, just the other day one of my "friends" was like ... well everyone has hooked up by now...duh. and i was like, no they havent, i know people who havent. and she was like, have you? and i lied. i said i did. because i didn't want to feel like a loser. because maybe i should have ALREADY hooked up with a guy. but again, no guys like me. and im only attracted to the ones who are out of my league, not available, or ex's. I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG OR WHAT I AM DOING WRONG OR ANYTHING. any advice is appreciated. i guess. ugh. will it ever be my turn ?! ugh. and you don't have to tell me what i want to hear, im on this site for the truth. okay? thanks in advance.
i know you want the truth. so here you go. i am pretty damn overweight. i dont wear bakinis, so its not like im calling myself fat and im 130..no no its much more than that.
the truth is this. next month will be my three YEAR anniversary with my bf, im 19 hes 20. my friends are sooo gorgeous like really reaaaally beautiful girls. yeah, they get the guys. but only a couple of them get the love. like my gorgeous friends get played , not taken seriously, etc.
so. dont get discouraged. dont feel pressured. when the right person comes along for you, you will know. just give it time. you are young! hang out with friends, enjoy being young, have fun! there is plenty of time for love.
(Rating: 5) thank you, at least you have a boyfriend, you knowwww? but thanks, that was great.