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i'm 16.
i've been dating this guy for almost 6 months and i know im in love with him. the thing is, i feel like i can't give him any pleasure without the chances of getting pregnant. if i were to get pregnant my life would pretty much be over. my parents are hardcore catholics and believe in pro-life (as do i) and if i asked for birth control they'd probably flip on me. i don't want to have sex for a long time down the road, but just things like hand job and fingering because im so afraid of getting pregnant...i know theres a really small chance, but its still a chance...is their anything at all i can do to make a 0% chance of pregnancy?
oh and btw: can you get pregnant dry humping? like can sperm swim through clothing? or wet clothing? (link)
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first of all, yes, you can give him lots of pleasure without just sex or something related to it. if all he wants from you is sex, he is not worth it in my opinion. anyway, you can also pleasure him by finding his "sweet spots" you could say, like behind his ears, back of the neck, and so on. i have been together with my bf for almost 2 years now, and we have not had sex, and we are perfectly happy. if you are comfortable with it, you can also pleasure him by letting him explore your body, tease him by wearing a fancy bra or thong, or put on a swim suit fashon show for him (just go to walmart and have fun!). also, for 0% chance of pregnancy, just make sure when ever you two are fooling around that his penis is no where near your v. 0 penetration and cum means 0 pregnancy.
as far as i'm aware, no, you can not get pregnant by dry humping, there is no way sperm will live long enough to make it threw clothing, probably 2 layers, and somehow make it all the way up your v with everything in there wanting to kill it. so just have fun ^^
if you would like to talk more, or need some more ideas, just message me and i'll give you my email,
hope this helps,
~kaze
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thanks so much...yeah neither of us want to have sex for a long time. we just like to do the little stuff ;) but thanks again!
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